Coping

 Today is a bit heavy. But it’s all good. It’s ok to feel a bit down. It’s ok to go into the valley. The key is not to live there. Let’s face it. We are human and of course sometimes the feelings are just overwhelming. We just need to finds ways to deal with things. And please bear with me. I just simply write what’s flowing through my head at the time. Sometimes it feels like brain is on steroids. Lol. But today I’m feeling a bit heavy because the sun is shining with blue skies and I’m thinking of Mike and we will just be like let’s go for a drive. So I took a drive to Sandy Hook. Music blasting. Singing to the top of my voice. Enjoying the scenery. Sometimes this is all you need. You would think it’s been over 8 years and maybe I wouldn’t still miss him so. But remember grief has no timeline. Take the time for yourself. Go with friends or be ok being with just being with  you. It’s all good. Remember I started this blog so we could share whatever is going on with us at the time. Because we are going to support each other and bring each other up.

Have a wonderful day💜


Comments

  1. Feel all the feels, embrace them and keep moving on the journey. And every step you take, every drive w/ the music turned up, Mike is w/ you because you call forth his spirit w/ every memory.

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  2. Grief - so many things I’m thinking of. It’s scary. We learn to find joy and something hits us and all those feelings of anger , sadness , despair return. I’m sorry you were having some moments but glad you had strategies to use. Our loved ones never leave us.

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  3. I am amazed at your strength and resilience.

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